Susan Okamoto Lane

Identity, Privilege: Aha Moments

Slow Learner!

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2014 was when I first created this blog, and it’s now 2022. The voices to use my voice, speak out, “stick up” have penetrated my reluctance and insecurity, so I’m making a commitment to a daily practice of “Coming Out”.

By way of introduction, I am a third-generation Japanese American, “Sansei”, whose parents, grandparents and their community were incarcerated by the U.S. government during World War II. I’m retired from working full-time, 36 years at Seattle Pacific University, and I love staying in touch with the hundreds of young alumni I had the privilege of mentoring when they were students, largely from underrepresented backgrounds.

Growing up as one of four siblings, a mantra that kept going through my head was “I’m not the oldest, not the youngest, not the only boy, plus I caused enough trouble because I was premature, so I have to tow the line and not stick out”. I’m working on reframing that narrative, that I had freedom from expectations that my older sister and brother didn’t have, that I have the privilege of being the nail that sticks up.

Stay tuned for more. I promise it won’t be eight years before my next post ;-).

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Author: Susan Okamoto Lane (She/Her/Hers)

Susan Okamoto Lane is a Sansei (third generation Japanese American), a baby boomer ("lightly seasoned" as one diplomatic young medical technician delicately described after seeing her birthdate). Susan is a wife, mother, sister, daughter, cousin, aunt, friend, mentor, and life-long learner. Some have described her as "the iron fist in the velvet glove", a sometimes confusing and surprising combination of her direct, even fearless communication, especially when advocating for others and the cultural indirect and conflict averse Japanese approach.

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